Saturday, May 25, 2013

Composure



  


            Our experience of present moment is decided by our state of mind ( Worries n expectations n fears n satisfaction about our physical n Social status n Job or business or financial status n family n friends n relatives n even Strangers ) at that moment thats how much composed we are.

             Mind becomes analytical n suspicious due to negative experience and due to lack of guidance. For example, if a trusted person cheats you unexpectedly, you start suspecting people after that incident. First you suspect few and later you suspect everyone. At the end you don’t trust anyone. Then you start liking loneliness and think you don’t need people. These things happen because of just a bad experience or even an emotional garbage.

            You need to trust everyone to the level required with good judgment from the heart that’s all. We cannot stop moving with 99 people for the one culprit. This is very crucial to maintain your composure.

            Sometimes due to aging, maturity and working, Mind becomes analytical and suspicious. This should also be avoided to maintain a good composure for peace and happiness.

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Problems of youngsters



            Today, youngsters face numerous problems or distractions in life which may divert them from their focus on Education and Career. It begins right from movies, friends, love. Life is mix of Studies, Entertainment n Fun. It is just that the youngsters need to prioritise and balance everything knowing the worth of each. One cannot live like a Robo either.

      There are only two types of Knowledge acquisition. First one is knowledge by self experience by trial n error. Second one is knowledge gained by reading documented Books written by others based on their own Experiences n Trial n Error.

            Youngsters expect a lot from their lives these days. But in most cases life doesn't offer much except for few lucky ones. One needs to be very shrewd and knowledgeable to get everything they want. 

            Love in school and college is not a sin. If love is within limits, in that tender age its god’s gift. It will be a pleasant experience to remember and recollect in later years even if it doesn't materialise in marriage. Its only a countable number of people who loved from school and married after settling in career.

          One's Character n Personality n Future are shaped from the experiences n memories during the age -1 to 20 roughly.

        Young criminals n offenders n Juviniles n slaves ( innocent school n college boys n girls with parents who are innocent n not educated or knowledgeable n rich ) are produced in large number in India exploiting thier innocence which needs to be stopped fully soon.

            Society is becoming very challenging with all types of traps all around. The caution board is also kept everywhere. At the end of the day, its ones own decision to choose the right path. If you choose to go in the right path you survive and if you choose the other way definitely you will die or get the punishment in 20 years indirectly.

            Youngsters should build their Careers n Business n Lives on top of the experiences n guidance of their Elders n Parents n Mentors n Seniors. There is no point rediscovering the wheels doing the same mistakes of previous generations. But gaining experience out of doing trials is much more applied in life than learning things just by guidance. For most people in the World (99.99 %) are just living their lives in the Template n Path which was invented by pioneers atleast 50 - 300 Years before in Britain or USA or Germany. ( Including Rich people n Leaders ).

       Secrets of Life n Universe are taught in Kinder Gardens n If you have keen IQ you will learn lots of principles n philosophies from bizzire kids Toys. Truth lies in small things n not visible to Naked Eyes and will be visible only to people with Wisdom.

Study Techniques: Simulation n Trial n Error.

Memory Technique : Multiple "Links"  which connects to the Answer from Question.

            Indian Student's Associations should collaborate with State n Central Government Committees to contribute in building a new Education system ( which is on its way) from Schools from 1st Std - 12th  Std n College n University Diploma n Bachelors n Masters n Doctorate.

      The amount of problems n difficulties you face when you are young will put pressure on you n motivate you to grow n touch heights in Life n Career n Business.

       Today the youngsters are giving up being good as they are rewarded with bad things. They give up perseverance n Start to have a negative outlook towards Life n World which is very bad.

        Handling Disappointment:  One should not have strong expectation n anticipation about anything in Life. Should also think n plan about alternative n be peaceful. Even Disappointment is DIS Appointment.

        Our Present Education System n Governance System n Legal System in India may have been tried out in England some 800 Years before ( My guess needs to be corraborated by Sociologists n Leaders).

       Education System Worldwide needs a Revamp to include Spirituality n few Religions in General n Human Value System n Professional ethics to make good Citizens of their own Countries.

குறள் 396:

தொட்டனைத் தூறும் மணற்கேணி மாந்தர்க்குக்
கற்றனைத் தூறும் அறிவு.

விளக்கம் 1:

மணலில் உள்ள கேணியில் தோண்டிய அளவிற்க்கு நீர் ஊறும், அதுபோல் மக்களின் கற்றக் கல்வியின் அளவிற்கு அறிவு ஊறும்.

விளக்கம் 2:

மணலில் தோண்டிய அளவு சிறு குளத்தில் நீர் ஊறும்; மக்கள் கற்ற அளவே அறிவும் வளரும்.

English Couplet 396:

In sandy soil, when deep you delve, you reach the springs below; The more you learn, the freer streams of wisdom flow.

Couplet Explanation:

Water will flow from a well in the sand in proportion to the depth to which it is dug, and knowledge will flow from a man in proportion to his learning.

      Our Education System is partially ( 50% ) unfit to produce deciplined n Matured Indian Citizens with Human Values.

       School Students need a Subject n Class on Causing Physical n Mental pain to others n make them sadists of any kind which will educate them not to do that in their Lives n become anti socials.

My Alma Mater:

Government Elementary School, Thoppampatti

Sri Gopal Naidu Higher Secondary School, Peelamedu
 

Sri Ramakrishna Engineering College, Vattamalaipalayam

Carleton University, Ottawa, Canada



Indian Institute of Science, Bangalore



Sunday, May 5, 2013

The deepest silence of self




            Mind is like a house with rooms and door and windows. you can classify all your thoughts into different relationships and subjects. We can compare this as Vasthu sasthram for mind.

Like,

Relationships,

     1)      Parents
     2)      Siblings
     3)       Friends
     4)      Colleagues
     5)      All others

Subjects,

    1)     Work
    2)  Hobbies
    3)  Entertainment

             In mind, each room will have its own size and characteristics with echo proof design. Windows allow us to send out the unwanted and disturbing thoughts to be sent out making sure it doesn't echo inside. In hall we meet all our relationships and allow the interaction of all. Bed room and Pooja room are like Genetic Centre and that is where the deepest silence of self resides. The doors of each room should be kept open only when its required to make sure that people interact with you at right time.
       
           With a perfect Vasthu of your mind, you are destined to achieve peace, happiness, bliss.

           In Tamil there is an ancient expression ``idam, porul, eval arinthu sollu''. This means one has to speak minding,

 the place,

 the content of speech and

 the interest shown by your listener (by order or direction).

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Soulmate ( Love of your Life )




Soulmate is a person whom you longed for meeting n who matches with you mentally and physically ( 100 %) or matching mutual expectations. So the concept of soulmate is right. But the probability of marrying a soulmate is very narrow. As people say life is a compromise, marriage also becomes a compromise for many.

                Life doesn't stop after marrying a soulmate, it actually starts there. Living as soulmate for life time, is more of understanding and flexibility when the priorities change after few years of marriage. Whether you married a soul mate or not, depends on what conclusion you come to after living entire life till death. A person, who may not be a soulmate at the time of marriage , may be a soul mate for lifetime with flexibility and the partner can tell that at the time of death.

So its not that whether you marry a soulmate or not. But its whether you live as soulmates matters a lot.