Saturday, March 23, 2013

Where life takes you to…

            Vast majority of people have no idea of where their life takes them to. They don’t have any thoughts about that either. If you think about where your life takes you to, then you will have short and long term plans for leading life. But sometimes, these short term and long term plans puts you under unnecessary worries and tension. The bigger perspective of life is also annoying to think about quite often. For these two reasons the guidance of elders for life planning relieves us from unnecessary tension and pressure.

            To be ideal, your life should take you to realize your dreams how big the dream may be. That’s where you feel totally contented with your life. But the dream should be in accordance to your priorities of life and understanding about life and society in general which comes after considerable experience in career.

            Human mind can expand and shrink to the level we dream. So its always good to dream big, so that we achieve big in life. Dream big and grow in life to a level where you will travel in a Cruise Ship, Race Car, and Fighter Jet and even Space Shuttle.

        What you Do n how you react to a situation is very important than what the situation is.

          Life is like a Relay Running Race for vast majority people depending on their parents n the Kids have to get the Relay Stick n Run in life n Career n Business allowing their parents to Rest.

          In todays World Huge amount of Expectations n Lots of Anticipations n Stringent Deadlines n unimaginable short term Targets Torture Most People.

         Most People ( 99% including High Achievers) dont plan n anticipate n worry about Tomorrow n Future. They all take life as it comes n improvise whole hearted n fully Today. Dream big n Aim high. But dont have stringent short term n long term goals or targets which puts you under stress due to anticipation.

        In India, People in Cities n Suburbs should stop running in a Race in Education n Job. Each n Everyone is unique in personality n so they should be going in a unique path in Education n Career n not running like running in a Rat Race which shows their immaturity towards Life n jus living for survival.

Thirukural :

Kural 596, Ookam Udaimai

Ulluva thellam uyarvullal matradhu

Thallinum thallamai neerthu

Thirukural In Tamil :

உள்ளுவ தெல்லாம் உயர்வுள்ளல் மற்றது

தள்ளினும் தள்ளாமை நீர்த்து.

Meaning of the thirukural:

Keep your thoughts always higher and try to achieve them. Even though they couldn't be achieved do not lose hope.

எண்ணங்கள் உயர்வானதக இருக்கட்டும் . அவை நிறைவேறாமல் போனாலும் மனம் சோர்வடைய கூடாது .

Sunday, March 3, 2013


            Attitude decides how we approach life and what kind of outlook we have about life. We need to have a positive attitude and positive approach towards life to lead a happy life. Attitude might change for a person over a period of time due to too much of positive or negative experiences. Being cautious in life is a good attitude than looking at everything in negative perspective with lots of worries.

            The summation of our past experience decides our present attitude. If the attitude becomes negative due to some negative experience, the new memories of positive experience can only change the attitude from negative to positive for an average human being. But the knowledge about the attitude can get a positive attitude for an expert even with lots of negative experiences.

      Truth n Fact may be anything. But if you believe strongly to achieve something then you can definitely do it with hard work n effort n perseverence.

         It is your perspective to view most things as good without comparing. ( Relativity )
Dont expect everything to be Ideal in Life. That expectation will put you in enormous Stress in Life.