I am not trying to project a negative attitude in this blog or in all my blogs. But Unfortunately this is the ground reality n Ultimate TRUTH which we all have to agree.
If i write a positive blog hiding TRUTH then it will be good to read but mislead you throughout your LIFE. So this is mainly like a CAUTION Board to avoid predominant n most reccuring negative experiences in Life. You can be a perfectionist but at the sametime dont become a Cynic n waste your time trying to change people but accept them as they are whole heartedly.
Mainly there is a lot of Communication ( lingustic ) problems n Unclear Vision problems n Lack of Mutual Understanding problems in most Relationships.
So, It is good to have touch with handful of (few) relatives and friends and colleagues who
are true to us with love. Jus have” hai!, how are you?, bye!“ relationship with
everyone else. We will have to get lots of bad experiences if we go close with
many people. In any new relationship, everything will be beautiful in the
beginning. When the time goes by, things deteriorate and in most cases, hate
will only be the result. Its because, we know nothing about the person in the
beginning and we imagine a greenish picture about them. When the time goes by
we get to know more details about the person which make us hate them if the
details are not matching with our expectations. This is the reason why the
priority matched relationships are rare and if we have such relationships we
have to protect and nurture it for long term. Also there should be some mutual
benefit and time availability for interaction for a relationship to sustain.
It is also possible to have friendship with people whose priorities are not matched accepting the differences of each other. We have to be very choosy and careful in moving with people. Its good to maintain proper distance with people. Stay away from Wolves n Stray Dogs n all Dangerous Animals N Disasterous Robotic Humans.
It is also possible to have friendship with people whose priorities are not matched accepting the differences of each other. We have to be very choosy and careful in moving with people. Its good to maintain proper distance with people. Stay away from Wolves n Stray Dogs n all Dangerous Animals N Disasterous Robotic Humans.
It is
very rare to get new friends who may become close friends after college days.
But i always keep my options open to meet new people and make friends and I get
along well with all with proper distance. You dont need to trust someone to the extent you love them. Love yourself first n Love all others n trust little. If you dont trust anyone you are alone n if you trust everyone fully you will be cheated. So Trusting Right Person shows your Intelligence in life. Everyone should give first chance for the other person in a Relationship n also in Road Traffic. Judging a person in a relationship is like doing Math. If you miscalcute the answer will be wrong.
You should be kind enough to break the protocol n help in any relationship if the other person is less knowledgeable n needs help. Being kind is important than being right.
Intruding into others privacy by peeping into their personal life n talking bull shit can be a worst behaviour in a relationship. They themselves should first see whether their 100 % Perfect n Ideal n if so then they should help them solve their problem confidentially n safely if possible orelse stay as Good Hearted Stranger. Constitution of India needs amendments to accomodate for Privacy related Crimes n Harassments ( Like Casting Couch n Honey Trapping ) of this kind in Today's India.
In an Issue in a relationship, there will be two sides ( Like a Coin ) or view points in which both will be justfiable for themselves but the third person or a view point who can only tell which is right for both. In Most Cases our own Judgement n Understanding of the other person's ( If its opposite sex ) view point is wrong ( 99.99 % ) except if you are an Expert Psychologist.
Little fight n Suspecion can be used as a Touch Stone to check the truthfulness n Strength of any relationship. Judge most people whether they are friendly or not just like a 5 year old Kid from their words n politeness. Dont complicate your judgement skills as Most things ( 99 % ) are straight forward in this World. 1 is one n 2 is Two. There is no Human being on Earth who looks n talks like a Murderer but truly a Saint. If a person is only 95 % polite n kind to you he is already half enemy n if a person is 100 % polite n kind to you there is a good possibility that he might be backstabbing you n if a person is deadly n rashly talking bull shit on you he is a deadly enemy acting with you to get a Oscar Award very soon. In judging in relationships always follow your Heart not your Intelligent Mind.
Hurting or Cutting Word ( Time Heals everything mostly ) or Sentence ( Suggestion ) or Remark of a Trusted person or Stranger is Sharper than a Sword n Poisonous than a Snake bite n Disasterous than a Bomb Blast which will deform the Mind n Body n Face n might result in their own diseases like Tumor n Cancer or Organ failures. In some cases you should not tell the truth or lie thats you should not talk. N you should be silent. Hurting word in a Cell phone may result in bad Physical n Ps_____cal Di_____es n consequences.
Forcing someone ( whom one personally doesnt like ) to get eleminated from main Network of Friends n Relatives n waiting for few years n then doing hidden defamation is a very nasty Business inwhich few experts are good at in each small network. This is one type of Racism to force someone to get eleminated out of Society.
You should be kind enough to break the protocol n help in any relationship if the other person is less knowledgeable n needs help. Being kind is important than being right.
Intruding into others privacy by peeping into their personal life n talking bull shit can be a worst behaviour in a relationship. They themselves should first see whether their 100 % Perfect n Ideal n if so then they should help them solve their problem confidentially n safely if possible orelse stay as Good Hearted Stranger. Constitution of India needs amendments to accomodate for Privacy related Crimes n Harassments ( Like Casting Couch n Honey Trapping ) of this kind in Today's India.
In an Issue in a relationship, there will be two sides ( Like a Coin ) or view points in which both will be justfiable for themselves but the third person or a view point who can only tell which is right for both. In Most Cases our own Judgement n Understanding of the other person's ( If its opposite sex ) view point is wrong ( 99.99 % ) except if you are an Expert Psychologist.
Little fight n Suspecion can be used as a Touch Stone to check the truthfulness n Strength of any relationship. Judge most people whether they are friendly or not just like a 5 year old Kid from their words n politeness. Dont complicate your judgement skills as Most things ( 99 % ) are straight forward in this World. 1 is one n 2 is Two. There is no Human being on Earth who looks n talks like a Murderer but truly a Saint. If a person is only 95 % polite n kind to you he is already half enemy n if a person is 100 % polite n kind to you there is a good possibility that he might be backstabbing you n if a person is deadly n rashly talking bull shit on you he is a deadly enemy acting with you to get a Oscar Award very soon. In judging in relationships always follow your Heart not your Intelligent Mind.
Hurting or Cutting Word ( Time Heals everything mostly ) or Sentence ( Suggestion ) or Remark of a Trusted person or Stranger is Sharper than a Sword n Poisonous than a Snake bite n Disasterous than a Bomb Blast which will deform the Mind n Body n Face n might result in their own diseases like Tumor n Cancer or Organ failures. In some cases you should not tell the truth or lie thats you should not talk. N you should be silent. Hurting word in a Cell phone may result in bad Physical n Ps_____cal Di_____es n consequences.
Forcing someone ( whom one personally doesnt like ) to get eleminated from main Network of Friends n Relatives n waiting for few years n then doing hidden defamation is a very nasty Business inwhich few experts are good at in each small network. This is one type of Racism to force someone to get eleminated out of Society.
The moment you do a Good Thing or a Bad Thing to an Unknown person, You enter into a relationship with them as a Friend or Enemy or anyother relationship depending on what you exactly do n you are no longer a Stranger to that person N You will be Rewarded Directly or Indirectly for whatever you Contribute in the Relationship or Relationships with me. This applies to All Politicians n Businessman n Officers n Producers n Directors n Actors n Industrialists.
It is natural that most People feel being Insecure, if a person known to them grows Monitarily or Politically faster than them that they will be in the mercy of that person n they want themself to be in the Top Crest. This is a basic survival instict of people in society.
What Energy ( Positive or Negative ) you give out, Comes back to you. ( Keduvan kedu nirupan. Murpagal seiyin pirpagal vilayum. Theethum nandrum pirar thara vara).
It doesnt matter how high you fly if you cannt come back n help those who find it difficult to take off. Being Silent looking at someone who is suffering is Inhumane n Sadism n Arrogance n Saten.
If you say you a Good person then the question arises like How much good you are? Even the nicest people have a limit of being good n sympathetic.
Most people who are cunning , do mistakes n errors in relationships without mistakes n errors n backstabb n manipulate the innocent which will be hidden forever.
Like food chain, In relationships, Tiger will eat Deer n Cat will eat mouse.
In any relationship ( including Business owner n Consumer ) the win - win scenario is the one which will nourish the relationship n as both persons get benefited out of it. Persons or relationships in your close contact are indirectly responsible for your growth or failure. Rashly Competing Friends n Relatives are very dangerous.
Selecting people for interaction n words spoken are very important.
In Tamil there is an ancient expression `idam, porul, eval arinthu sollu''. This means one has to speak minding,
the place,
the content of speech and
the interest shown by your listener.
A lie told by many persons, many times becomes a Rumor which most people start to believe as Truth which needs a Defamtion Law suit very soon.
Most people (99.99 %) forget the learnings in their life n relationships many times as they have a common Amnesia due to their main focus on Work n Life problems.
If you are Angry with me for some reason, Then Come directly to me ask me. Or Ignore. I like to be a Good hearted n Unknown Stranger to you. Dont do Idiotic n Silly n Nonsense things around me n waste your Time n Energy n Get Lost.
For a Cynic who constantly makes pŕoblems n fights doesnt need any Enemy in life at all. Because 99.44 percent people will backstabb you in your needs in work or anything if you make a very small hurt or fight. Because those robos or monkeys have a justification for their backstabbing n their software or psychology doesnt allow Forgiving or Feed back or even a small hurting word without revenge. But if you talk soft n kind then most people will react n respond to you positively.
Everyone has the right n freedom to do anything they want n in the meantime they have the freedom n right to suffer for all their mistakes n wrong doings. So if it is not possible to stop someone from falling down in life, then let them suffer at their free will.
Whoever you may be in the World, if you play with or touch someone's emotion strongly ( In any relationship including Stranger ) , then you should be ready to get whatever nonsense they could do to you n your life n to pay the price n ready for the consequences n return. After getting something bad, Revenge is Foolish which, Wise n Intelligent people only know.
People ( friends or relatives or colleagues ) whom you are in touch with ( by any means like cellphone or social network or direct meeting ) are called the Society around you n all others in the World are strangers. If anything good or bad is going to come to you, it is only because of this small network. Your Physical n Mental Health n Longivity are decided by your skill of handling these relationships. So dont give the privilage to anybody in any relationship to spoil your peace of mind. Life is simple if you follow Bhagavad Gita n Just do your duty without expecting anything in return n think good n be good n do good always.
Note: Transactional Analysis ( TA ).
Playing with someones emotions n life secretly with all sorts of resources through strangers n closely connected relatives n friends n colleagues, is what many do to revenge that person.
Dont blame the society for all your wrong doings for survival n because if you cannt live with pure Conscience as Good person, you always have the right to Die.
You should have learnt decipline from your Parents n Teachers or by your own Experience n if not n if you go in wrong direction n then you will suffer later.
In India if you want to live a happy life as a family, then you should aquire knowledge only in the areas of your work n not related to life as such, because if you research about life in India, then you will become conservative n orthodox n a Robot.
Your Math Skills in your Relationships decides your Longivity. Another way to increase your Longivity is to live in isolation in Forests or Villages.
பொறுமை கடலினும் பெரிது.
பொறுமையுடையவன் எதைச் சாதிக்க வேண்டுமென நினைக்கிறானோ அதைச் சாதிப்பான்.
You can use your knowledge n wisdom to take decision only when you are patient. When you take decision with emotion with hurry, you will get bad result only.
பொறுமையுடையவன் எதைச் சாதிக்க வேண்டுமென நினைக்கிறானோ அதைச் சாதிப்பான்.
You can use your knowledge n wisdom to take decision only when you are patient. When you take decision with emotion with hurry, you will get bad result only.
தர்மம் தலை காக்கும் தக்க சமயத்தில் உயிர் காக்கும்
கூட இருந்தே குழி பறித்தாலும் கொடுத்தது காத்து நிற்கும்
மலை போலே வரும் சோதனை யாவும் பனி போல் நீங்கி விடும்
நம்மை வாழ விடாதவர் வந்து நம் வாசலில் வணங்கிட வைத்து விடும்
செய்த தர்மம் தலை காக்கும் தக்க சமயத்தில் உயிர் காக்கும்
அள்ளிக்கொடுத்து வாழ்பவன் நெஞ்சம் ஆனந்த பூந்தோப்பு
வாழ்வில் நல்லவர் என்றும் கெடுவதில்லை இது நான்குமறை தீர்ப்பு
என்றும் தர்மம் தலை காக்கும் தக்க சமயத்தில் உயிர் காக்கும்.
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If you are normal n ordinary people will term you as robot. If you are extraordinary n abnormal people will term you Idiot. So always people tell something whatever you are. So dont listen to them.
There is always an egoistic race of who is shrewd n informative n a great Driver ( Always thinking n researching n talking about hints from very old to new database - E , I ) of the Situations taking advantage of circumstances n doing manipulations which looks natural.
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Forest has become best place for Habitation of Human beings n Urban has become a place of habitation of Animals of Jungle.
If you are Good at Math of Relationships, you can live a Healthy Life till age 120.
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